I’m new here, so let me give you guys a little background:
With no electronics background / experience, I bought myself a book about microprocessors and a programmer. (Let’s get to work!

After doing quite a few chapters in the book, I felt confidence enough to grab a breadboard, put a “left over from a another project” pic on it (the 16f88) and connected a LCD to it (44708 controller 2x20 chars).
And before I knew it, I was reading a analog signal from a pot, using the converted digital value to drive the PWM based backlight of the LCD. (+showing the digital value on line 1 and a bar progress on line 2 on the lcd)
I created that software using JAL (don’t know if anyone ever heard of this?)
Next I wanted to see if I could connect the pic to my com port, so I grabbed the book and datasheet, looked up how a max232 chip should be connected, and built the connection. After adding a few lines to the script the values of the pot came flying on to my terminal screen! So far this all was surprisingly simple. (would have expected it to be more difficult)
Anyway, around this time I found this site, and I would love to use LCD smartie on the LCD I built. Once it is working, I’m thinking about getting the circuit off the breadboard, on to a (diy) pcb for a more permanent solution.
But, I’m hitting a brick wall in the process. (this is where it all suddenly ceased to be simple...

I don’t really know how to “drive” the incoming signal from the pc to the LCD as output. (software in the pic)
I didn’t expect to find a fully functional hex code for my chip or something, but after a few days of google-ing, I even can’t find any examples to get me started.
There are examples available in JAL, as well as MPLAB, but those examples are either for the rs232 connection, or connecting the LCD, but no hints how to use them both together.
Could you guys help me out getting back on track with this?
Offcourse I’m not asking “please write this software for me..” but at the moment i’m simply a bit overwhelmed with the learning curve, and I don’t know where to go from here.
I have a feeling I did come a long way (at least, lcd and rs232 connection are both working)
I also read that someone people are emulating a Matrix Orbital LCD with a pic. Is this something I can do with that 16f88?
Any advice where to go from here?
Many thanks in advance!
(if more info is required, please let me know..)